Me and my love have connected back together again we broke up and dated other people but none of them completed us so we missed each other and got back together my life was not the same with out her so we planning to get married can't wait until I become mrs.cooper we been going at it for 4 years I love you quay forever baby its us against the world Fan Mail : I've been with my partner for going on three years.We've talked about moving in together but we're waiting to be more financially stable. I'm more of the studious, 9-5, kind of nerdy type. So there have been timed that we've argued over seemingly small things.
When the two of us are in a good place personally, our relationship is amazing.
But when she goes through stages of depression, she pushes me away, doesn't communicate and has a way of making me feel like I'm the only one in the relationship.
This past summer she was going through a depression (and still is) and spent time going to clubs and bars without me.
She said sometimes she just wants to do things alone.
She stated vehemently that she has no desire to date other women.
She goes out with platonic friends and for her she said it's just a time to dance and have a few drinks and enjoy herself.There was one time that she went and was supposed to meet up with a friend who didn't show.On that evening, she was approached by a woman that she found herself attracted to. She said there was no kissing and she kept her hands to herself. She told me about it and said she wanted me to know what was going on. She could have gone and pretended it never happened.And that while she was attracted to the woman she doesn't want to give up what we have for a piece of ass. I have a history of being possessive and controlling with other women but because I truly value our relationship, I've worked hard not to become that way with her. Or just went and cheated and not told me and I wouldn't have ever known. And the fact that she's going through this depression, which causes some distance to occur, only makes it worse.After three years I'm sure it's normal to feel less inclined to be all up under your girlfriend and want to go out and have fun with platonic friends.But my insecurities make me feel like I'm not enough for her. Fan Mail : I don't think my girlfriend and I will ever get it right.