Sorry (but not sorry), the truth is you’ll never make it on that motivation alone.
The reality is this: groupies don’t care about you when you’re on the come up, because you’re likely broke and struggling.
Almost daily, I see some loser guy acting like a savage in order to get a woman’s attention. But the reality though is that when women meet me, they immediately start thinking I’m a player once they find out I’m an r&b singer. I’m a digital marketing analyst, a singer, songwriter, producer and as of last year, I’ve been documenting all of my music experiences via my blog and as a contributing writer to Digital Music News. Aside from that – I have very ambitious long term career goals, and I’m pretty busy trying to achieve them.
As a result, women in New York (and most other places these days) have their guard up, and for good reason – there are tons of creeps out there ruining it for the rest of us. I had one girl ask me recently, In plain English, she wanted to know how many girls I’ve been with. I want to write a book, get my Ph D., land a publishing deal (with either Warner/Chappell, Sony/ATV, or Universal), win a Grammy, open a music studio in NYC, become a world class marketing consultant, and more.
Randi Zuckerberg (sister of Facebook’s CEO, Mark Zuckerberg) says busy people, particularly entrepreneurs, can only have 3 out of these 5 work-life balance items.
• Work • Sleep • Family • Friends • Fitness That’s a bold statement, but I’d have to agree it’s kind of true.
Professional Musicians often have a major passion for their music and have a hard time relating to non-musicians on an intimate level because they do not share this passion for music.
While some musicians are alright with dating non-musicians, they still want to date somebody who respects their music and finds it interesting to talk about.You can meet single musicians and possibly land a date with one if you keep some things in mind.I’ll be writing this article based on my personal experience as a single male musician.I’m also based in New York City, which makes dating even harder.But whether you’re a male or female in the music industry, there are various complexities that can make romance extremely challenging. • Musicians/Artists get panties (or bras, or boxer shorts) thrown at them.Before I even get into it, let me properly preface this with some important context. To every non-musician reading this, you’re just an outsider looking in. Here are some of the most common false truths about musicians when it comes to dating, especially for up-and-coming musicians: • Musicians/Artists get TONS of gorgeous women falling for them. Now I’ll be honest, I have my fair share of female supporters, but nothing comes close to an official ‘groupie’.