She knows what is possible and also knows how to get to what is not within her reach right now. This realism takes off a lot of pressure from the younger men, and lets them perform their daily routines a lot more effectively.
She also understands that she has to be the woman that he wants forever.
This is where her age and experiences come into the picture and she will leave no stone unturned to ensure that the relationship is working well. She has experience Many younger men dating older women have confessed that they are in it because they love the lady and also get to learn a lot from her.
She has lived many more years, and this experience always counts for a lot.
They get to learn the easy way, and love her for guiding them through the rough patches of his life.
But she is not his mom; they have an admiration for her experience that they find sexy.
Well, if there is respect, admiration, and they also find her sexy, then there is nothing else that one needs to be in love with a woman. She is independent Older women who date younger men are generally financially independent.
But that is not all, they are also physically, emotionally, and psychologically independent.
This doesn’t mean that the man doesn’t want to take care of her; it only means that the relationship is going to be drama-free and there is very little room for miscommunication and misunderstandings.
The word ‘cougar’ has a bunch of negative connotations where the older women dating younger men are looked down upon.