You need to be able to deal with them in a classy yet direct manner; the best way is to have a good sense of what you want and who you will “be” out there. Stand Out Plain and simple: you have competition girlfriend.As we age, the ratio of women to men grows further apart.Some statistics say it’s as much as 11 women to each man after 55. If you’re dating after 40, I want you to stand up and stand out. (Come on…0 is too much to spend to attract a fabulous man??
Here’s a tip: If your best girlfriend loves it; it probably sucks because it’s too girly.
Every communication needs to scream how special you are, show your personality, and tell him you’re interested.
(“Hi” on the subject line means you wait in line or get deleted. Be Honest You are online, but your goal is to actually meet men, yes? It’s disingenuous and a waste of time to do otherwise. I find that at 40, 50, and beyond there is a wide spectrum of what type of partner men and women are looking for.
One of the top complaints of men is that we post pictures that are…let’s say…out of date. Whether you want a dinner partner or a husband; put it out there.
Let’s face it, meeting men is hard, especially if you are over 40. Your circle of friends is either the same it’s been for years, or post-divorce you are now creating new friendships.
If you’ve been avoiding going online because you’re thinking that it’s only for 20 year olds…think again!
Dating sites report that their fastest growing segment are people over 50. Online dating opens you up to a thousand more possibilities, and it’s a completely new way of meeting people. ) What things can you do to ensure your physical and emotional well-being as you talk to and meet people?
There are literally millions of men over 50 online. Make some decisions and set some personal guidelines about how you want to integrate it into your life. What can you learn or change to be a successful dater?
Online dating is the new hot spot for boomers and older adults. Intuition and special situations will create forks in the road.